to the practical aspects of your shared life: finances, children, career goals and home responsibilities. In the midst of all these concerns, however, it’s easy to forget that love has a life of its own. Too often, couples neglect their relationship until tiny irritants grow into a serious crisis. Consider

the following as a possible way to nurture love and head off troubles:

Explore Life together ~ There is always something new to discover. Ask for what you want ~ Your spouse can’t read

your mind. Compliment your spouse ~ Be sincere! Compliment your spouse in front of others ~ Public praise

lasts a long time! Touch your spouse gently ~ It says “I love you” in a special way. Be romantic ~ Never stop

courting each other. Respect your spouse’s privacy ~ Individual space is important. Don’t fear change ~ Change in marriage can mean growth.

Spend time apart ~ Separate interests generate interest between you. Play non-competitive games together ~ You

both win! Say “I love you” ~ It’s a joy to hear those three little words! Always look your best ~ Your spouse

deserves it. Fight fairly ~ No threats, accusations or name-calling. Be willing to apologize ~ loves means being

able to say, “I’m sorry.”

Graciously forgive ~ Love is not proud.

Entertain friends ~ They are part of your marriage.

Laugh together ~ Laughter can bridge great gaps.

Cry together ~ Shared tears bond hearts.

Share your dreams ~ Intimacy anticipates tomorrow.

Surprise each other ~ The unexpected stirs the heart.

Let yourself be weak ~ Marriage is interdependence.

Let yourself be strong ~ Marriage is interdependence.

Do loving things for your spouse ~

Your own heart will respond.

Respect your spouse’s family ~ You’re now part of it.

Look for love ~ It’s there even when you don’t “feel” it.

Enjoy silence together ~

Silence between spouses is sacred space.

Remember the past ~

Your past forms the present and the future.

Pray ~ Praise God for the life you share.